Over My Dad Body

Maybe you’re expecting a baby soon. Maybe someone close to you is. Or you’ve been put in charge of planning a get-together for a dad-to-be, and you’re feeling overwhelmed.

Don’t worry—I’ve got you covered. We’ll answer all your questions about diaper parties, from what they are to how to throw one that’s both fun and meaningful.

At first, planning a diaper party might seem like a lot, but it’s really just about celebrating and supporting a growing family. The key is to keep things simple and focus on making the dad-to-be feel loved, encouraged, and ready for the adventure ahead.

So, from creative themes and unexpected color palettes to custom mocktails and elevated menus, I have rounded up my favorite diaper party ideas to help you plan a celebration that’s personal, memorable, and full of good daddy vibes.

What is a Diaper Party?

First things first, what exactly is a diaper party? Is it just another name for a baby shower? Not quite.

While baby showers are usually all about the mom, a diaper party is a chance to celebrate the dad-to-be. And let’s be real—he deserves a little fun before he’s knee-deep in diapers and late-night feedings.

These days, dads are way more hands-on than they were a few decades ago, so why not give them a send-off into fatherhood with a laid-back, no-fuss gathering?

One big difference between a diaper party and a traditional baby shower are the gifts. Instead of onesies and baby blankets, guests bring diapers (and sometimes wipes)—hence the name.

The vibe is usually casual, but that doesn’t mean it’s just a hangout. Many hosts throw in a few fun games to keep things interesting, and of course, there’s always good food and drinks. Some parties even go all out with a theme to tie everything together.

What Actually Happens at a Diaper Party?

What happens at a diaper party is totally up to the host and the dad-to-be. It all depends on his personality and what kind of vibe he is into. But one thing’s for sure—it’s a chance for friends and family to come together, celebrate the new baby on the way, and show their support with gifts (mostly diapers, of course!).

Diaper parties can include all kinds of fun traditions and activities. Here are some of the most common ones:

Games and Activities

Of course, a big part of a diaper party is hanging out and catching up with friends and family. But having a few fun activities lined up never hurts! These game ideas are worth checking out—especially since they’re geared toward the guys, not the usual cheesy baby shower stuff.

• Yard Games. Even if some guys aren’t big sports fans, they will still have fun with a laid-back yard game! Tag is always a classic, but you’ve got plenty of other options, Giant Jenga, Connect Four, Dodgeball, or even a good old-fashioned ring toss. You can also center your diaper party games around a favorite sport—think a pickup game of touch football, a quick game of basketball, or whatever sport the dad-to-be is into.
• Baby Olympics. For a fun twist on competition, the dad-to-be can challenge his guests to some “Baby Olympics.” Picture a blindfolded diaper-changing race, a baby food taste test, or any other game that gets everyone going head-to-head!
• Drinking Games. A diaper keg party could be a great fit if everyone is up for it. You can mix in some fun, baby-themed drinking games like diaper pong (where you toss a ball into open diapers) or pacifier pong, a twist on beer pong using pacifiers. And for a real challenge, try a baby bottle chug competition; whoever finishes first wins!

Diaper Party Gifts

Guests often wonder what to bring to a diaper party. Unlike a baby shower, there’s usually no gift registry—just one simple rule: bring diapers! It’s a practical gift that every new parent needs and it’s easy for guests to grab on their way to the party.

Food and Drinks

The food at a diaper party is usually simple, delicious, and hassle-free, just like the party itself. Here are some easy crowd-pleasers to consider:

• BBQ. You can’t go wrong with a good old-fashioned barbecue. It’s a classic for any guys’ get-together. BBQ is always a crowd-favorite whether it’s smoked meat, burgers, or hot dogs with all the fixings.
• Pizza. Keep it easy by ordering pizza, or make it more exciting by allowing your guests to first play with their food. You can set up a DIY pizza-making station where aspiring chefs can build their own.
• Finger Foods. Simple snacks are always a hit. Think chips and dips, pretzels, cheese and meat platters, veggie trays, and other easy-to-grab bites.
• Themed Desserts. Add a fun touch with desserts that match the theme, like cookies shaped like beer mugs, cupcakes decorated with tiny diapers, or even a cake that ties it all together.
• Beers. Of course, beer is a must! If the dad-to-be is a craft beer fan, grabbing a six-pack (or two or three) is a simple and no-fail choice. Set up a tasting station where guests can sample different brews, and don’t forget to include a non-alcoholic option for the dad-to-be. Keep the fun going with beer-infused snacks like cheese dips, beer-battered onion rings, or even stout-marinated sliders. And to top it all off, raise a glass to the daddy-to-be with a special toast!

Creative Diaper Party Ideas

If you’re looking to plan an unforgettable diaper party to welcome your little one, you’ve come to the right place!

Every dad-to-be wants his diaper party to be a standout event filled with family, friends, and beautiful memories. One of the easiest ways to make a diaper party truly unique and memorable is by tying everything together with a cohesive theme.

A diaper party theme will help guide your party planning decisions, from color schemes and party decor to invitations, food, and activities. It will ultimately create a seamless, one-of-a-kind experience that you and your guests will remember for years.

Finding the perfect theme can be tricky, but I have pulled together the best creative diaper party themes for you to choose from. Whether you’re looking for a more classic baby shower theme or something totally unique with a modern twist, get ready to be inspired with our list of creative baby shower themes.

Sumpin’s Brewing

This lighthearted theme plays on the idea of a “baby brewing” and, naturally, ties it to beer! Get creative by designing your own “brewery” with fun, beer-themed signs and a color scheme inspired by classic brews—think deep greens, warm browns, and rich amber tones.

Tic-Tac-O

If you want a fun and lively diaper party theme, why not throw a fiesta? Go all out with bright colors, cacti, and flowers to bring in that Southwestern flair. Make your guests happy with a taco bar, a margarita station (with mocktail options, of course), and churro-topped cupcakes. It’s guaranteed to be a diaper party everyone will be taco ‘bout!

Babychella

Turn your diaper party into a mini music festival, complete with boho vibes and a fun, carefree atmosphere. Think dreamcatchers, flower crowns, and whimsical signs inspired by Coachella.

Set up cozy lounge areas with pillows and blankets where guests can relax and soak in the festival feel. And, of course, music takes center stage—whether it’s a playlist of upbeat hits, live performances from local musicians, or a karaoke session for some extra fun!

Baby On Board

Throw a “Baby on Board” surf-themed diaper party for a laid-back, beachy celebration! Perfect for an outdoor gathering by the pool or shore, this theme brings the sun, sand, and waves to life with surfboards, palm trees, and a totally chill vibe.

Decorate with seashells and starfish in the table settings and centerpieces to amp up the coastal feel. Keep the menu fresh and fun with beach-inspired bites like fish tacos and fruit skewers paired with tropical mocktails or coconut water infused with fresh fruit.

Baby Jedi

Attention all Star Wars fans! Get ready to travel to a galaxy far, far away for a Baby Jedi-themed diaper party. This intergalactic celebration is the perfect way to honor both the legendary franchise and your little Jedi-in-training.

Set the scene with starry backdrops, lightsaber decorations, and iconic character cutouts to make guests feel like they’ve stepped into the movies. Keep the theme going with Star Wars-inspired treats—think Wookiee cookies, Death Star cake pops, and blue “Bantha” milk.

May the Force be with you on this incredible journey into fatherhood!

Baby Q

Fire up the grill—it’s time for a “Baby-Q” BBQ-themed diaper party!

This relaxed, no-fuss theme is perfect for an outdoor celebration with good food and great company. Set up picnic tables with checkered tablecloths and fresh flowers for a cozy backyard feel.

Serve up all the BBQ classics—think tangy ribs, smoky barbecue chicken, and all the must-have sides. Keep the fun going with lawn games like tag football or frisbee, and let guests kick back and enjoy.

Trust me, it will be a celebration full of flavor, fun, and plenty of second helpings!

Born to Rock

Get ready to rock ‘n’ roll with a diaper party fit for your future rock star! Set the stage with bold decorations like electric guitars, vinyl records, music notes, and nods to your favorite bands.

Crank up the rock classics, or take it up a notch with a karaoke session where guests can belt out their favorite anthems. And for an extra dose of fun, an air guitar contest will have everyone laughing as they celebrate the arrival of your little rock star who’s already set to rock your world!

A Dad-Friendly Baby Shower

Diaper parties are a fun and meaningful way to celebrate a new baby on the way. But beyond the excitement of being a dad, what makes them special are the shared moments—laughs, stories, and the support of friends and family.

Whether it’s writing well wishes, decorating onesies, swapping parenting advice, or adding memories to a time capsule, every little gesture adds to the experience. These moments create a lasting sense of love and encouragement that will stay with the dad-to-be and their little one as they begin this incredible journey.